Sunday, July 27, 2008

Jose and Seve

Praise God!

A couple people have given towards Jose and Seves medical cost!

Since I last blogged, Jose was called into the Dr.'s office and given an appointment for next week with the specialist-- Praise God! He is feeling a bit better lately and is looking forward to seeing what the specialist has to say. Please keep him in your prayers as they do their investigative work with him this upcoming week.

Seve had her colonoscopy and assosciated tests on Friday. She is feeling a little rough after the tests- as she couldn't eat almost 2 days before the test and needed to take something to purge her before the test-- she said it was incredibly disgusting stuff and the purging process was suprisingly less joyful and comfortable than one would think. They gave her a general aneasthetic during the test and afterwards they sent her home while still groggy! She was in, out and home within 4 hours but quite tired and in some pain afterwards. She had one other test afterwards, has one more this coming week and then a consultation with the Doctor to let them know the results of the tests.

We appreciate your prayers on their behalf- they are a great couple whom we've come to admire greatly!

On another note- we had a birthday celebration with Caleb at the drive-in theatre! A fine time was had by all as we watched "Wall-E". We were all a bit disappointed- not that there was anything bad about it, but I suppose we've come to expect a more entertaining film from Pixar. This was ok- but very forgetable.

Thanks to someone's generosity, we'll be taking the boys to the waterpark in August! Thank You and Praise God. It has been a great learning experience for our boys to see the benefits of sacrifice!

Thanks for praying and Partnering!

Until Next Time,

Mike for the family.

Php. 4
I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.

20To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Fasting...

Jose and Severa are two of the most faithful people in my class. Rarely do they miss a class unless they are sick (and even then rarely...) or off on a mission trip somewhere in Southern Mexico.

Jose is one of several leaders in a little church that has a missions mindset. The attendance is less than 30 regularly, yet they have sent off and support several missionaries.The average income for a family in the church would be $400/ month. So each tithes to pay the lights, water and propane bills etc. and at the end of each month they take special offerings to pay their missionaries. Much more than 50% of their total monthly offering goes to support their missionaries working with Native peoples of Mexico. A really inspiring group!

On one of their trips to meet with some folks who have gone out from the church to live in the south, they think Severa contracted some kind of disease. She came back with severe, bloody diarrhea. She has seen multiple doctors and was in the hospital for a week. She has to have some tests done (colonoscopy) to check for colon cancer. She has had the diarrhea since March! The problem is that they have purchased government insurance for their medical needs and although the tests would be free, she has to wait until September to get them done! That will have been 6 months with diarrhea and other symptoms until the test, never mind any operation. Tijuana has dozens of Doctors and clinics to take care of this privately, but the cost is about $500.00 and this couple makes less than that each month... If you could please pray for Severa!!

Her husband Jose was on a trip to encourage their missionaries in southern Baja when he woke up in the middle of the night sicker than a dog. A visit to the Doctor provided the same frustration Severa had-- yes you are badly ill, wait several months for an appointment. So they scraped up what they had left for the month and got some tests done. He has severe prostatitis. A normal test for a 50 year old is about 4.5 or so- his test was 25.6! He has had severe fevers for 2 weeks now, extreme pain all the time, but esp. when he urinates and he looks like hes been run through the ringer.

He needs an appointment with a urologist but the government urologist (one for a city of 3 million!) has no appointments. At all. He does not know how long it will take. He has been taking medicine that has helped a little bit- only a low grade fever now, but still excruciating pain. He told me yesterday that a Dr.'s appointment outside of insurance is about $50.00 plus any tests and medicines. But they are tapped out already, having paid a lot for their medication.

So I was talking to my young men (Elijah Caleb and Jacob) this morning about this. We did not have enough support this month to get a full paycheck and I've had both of our vehicles in the shop twice each this month which has further drained the account. I'm wanting to help out, but we don't have much right now until child tax credit comes in on Friday. Even then, after paying the bills that it pays and some gas and food money, we will have enough left for Caleb's birthday party at a water park. So I told them we were cutting back- no eating out for the rest of the month, no tacos or soda or anything like that- but even so, we would not have enough to help Jose out with medical bills.

Then Caleb said "what about the waterpark... we could not go there and give that money to them." Elijah and Jacob agreed. They said it was a much better use of our money to help these guys out--what if the have cancer, or if his infection gets much worse and he gets really sick?!

I am so proud of my men! They get it- They understand loving God with everything you have and loving your neighbour like yourself!

Isaiah 56

6 "Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:
to loose the chains of injustice
and untie the cords of the yoke,
to set the oppressed free
and break every yoke?

7 Is it not to share your food with the hungry
and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—
when you see the naked, to clothe him,
and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?

8 Then your light will break forth like the dawn,
and your healing will quickly appear;
then your righteousness [a] will go before you,
and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard.

9 Then you will call, and the LORD will answer;
you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I.
"If you do away with the yoke of oppression,
with the pointing finger and malicious talk,

10 and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry
and satisfy the needs of the oppressed,
then your light will rise in the darkness,
and your night will become like the noonday.

11 The LORD will guide you always;
he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land
and will strengthen your frame.
You will be like a well-watered garden,
like a spring whose waters never fail.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Quinceanera "Sweet 15"

I had a cultural experience last Saturday- my first Quniceanera!

Quinceanera is a girls 15th Birthday- a HUGE deal here in Mexico! I got there about 1 hour and 15 minutes late, hoping I didn't miss the meal. It turned out nothing had started yet- so I was just on time!

So it starts with music- some kind of Christian pop that celebrates the quinceanera and some girls comes down the aisle(it was outdoors and the aisle was only between 10 chairs in single file- 5 on each side of the aisle.) There were 10 girls likely ranging in age from 4-14. They come down the aisle slowly with flower petal baskets and bubbles. They are dressed in little ball dresses with their hair all done up nicely. Then the crowd stands and claps for the special 15 year old as she walks in between the other girls dressed in a wedding-type dress with a crown on her head as they toss flower petals and blow bubbles at her. She has a specially decorated chair at the front and then a preacher talks for about 30 minutes. He spoke about purity and following God through adolescence etc. Then the birthday girl gets a ring to signify a covenant between her and God to save herself for marriage. She also gets a new pink Bible and a pillow for kneeling on to pray.

Her mom gives her a baby doll that is her "last gift as a child" she then gives that doll away to one of the little girls who had the flower petals and bubbles to signify that she has left childhood and is entering into young adulthood. She was then presented, with her escort, to the world as "Senorita Ramirez"!

She leaves the same way she left to rose petals and bubbles and a song and then we ate Birria ( a pulled beef dish in a sauce-- very tasty!!)

Rights of passage are important, but I was left wondering (with no answer given...) why there isn't a similar celebration for guys- to recognize their "coming of age". I suppose historically it may have to do with when a girl is eligible to be married and for the guys- they are eligible to marry when they can prove to the girls parents that he is responsible enough to care for their daugter...

I watched the cake for a good part of the ceremony. It was a 3 story wedding type cake with 2 other cakes on the side. All the cakes were covered with some veil-like material, presumably to protect them from the hundreds of flies that were around. Eventually the weight of the flies pushed the veil close enough for them to get a taste (or it was close enough already...). And did they feast!! The sight was quite disgusting, and apparantly others shared my disgust as 3 women got up, dis-veiled the cake and shooed the flies away- for 1 hour (or more!!).

Unfortunatly, I needed to go to class before we got to the cake part, so I was left without having a chance to try it...

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Lights Out

Monday night marked the first chance I had to teach in Spanish since we came back from Chihuahua. I was starting a new course on Preaching Biblical Messages and Pastoral Ministry.

It took an awful lot longer to prepare for this one, because I basically needed to fully prepare what I was going to say in English and then do it again in Spanish... I can't just translate the words because I think it's best to internalize the message in Spanish as much as I can so it comes out a little more naturally than just reading a translated manuscript. I really enjoyed it because I have a teaching manual in English and another in Spanish and doing it in both is helping to expand my vocabulary and see how the grammar works too.

I left a little early to get out there and arrived much earlier than needed. So i took a little tour and took the long way around to the church. By the time I got within 100 feet of the church- the road had been completely dug up to put in some water pipes! So I turned around and tried to take another way only to find myself at the top of a precipice with a "road" going downhill seemingly into a ditch with little other alternatives. So I looked around and found, finally, an alternative route to the church that didn't involve me going the full 10km back around the neighbourhood to get in the other way-- nor sliding down a hill into a ditch.

After I arrived one of my students, Gustavo, arrived with a smile on his face- but no car. "Can't get around the ditch?" I wondered out loud-- no- he'd gotten a ride partway and walked the rest-- his car that he'd had for 3 months had been stolen- along with a baby stroller that they had! He had woke up at 4:30am and everything was OK. At 5am his baby stroller was gone from inside the house and the car had been stolen too! He said all this with a smile and said "God knows what we need and what we can handle"

We went into the church and found that there were no lights. Which isn't unusual, because the church has no "official" power. There are just power lines that cross right over the roof, so they hook a wire to it and connect it to the breaker box and bingo-- you got lights!! Not tonight, though. so Gustavo hopped up on the roof to shimmy the wire but it didn't work. One of the neighbours said that the church had a backup power connection- a wire coming from a neighbours house- when they put their lights on, so did the church! But, they weren't home. So we did the class for about an hour or so without lights.

Down here it gets dark about 8:15 or so, and so about 8:00 the room was so dark, the whole class could've been sleeping and I wouldn't have known- The only reason I could see was the twilight coming through the open door beside me. Just then the neighbours came home and we thought we'd have light! BUT... it turns out the whole side of the road was without lights because when the guys were working on the road, they had either knocked down, or taken down the wire that connected that side of the road to the power grid...

Despite the issues of light and dark, the class actually went well. I was able to communicate pretty well, I think and my comprehension was a lot better than it had been before. The preparation helped to increase my vocabulary and it came out pretty naturally in class. I had a comment that my Spanish is much better now, so that was encouraging!!

I'm back out Saturday- hopefully with lights this time!!